Lol...yeah it was me ..its a small world on this forum
I think thats quite cruel of your ex to rub it in your face, plus surely theres no need for him to come to your house to collect your kids...its still early days for them...wait till the honeymoon period has worn off!
I thought Id never move on after I was badly hurt but somehow I did have another relationship about 3 years later, sadly it didnt last but it proves you can move on...its just a matter of time and meeting the right person. Whats the olde phrase...'its better to have loved and lost, than never been loved at all'......when in love its a fantastic feeling that we all want but when it goes wrong its the worst feeling in the world to be rejected but sadly part of life. Onwards n upwards