Welcome to the forum, sorry to hear that you and your daughter are having a rough time.
It is difficult to determine from your post what the issue might be or provide much in the way of advice and support. Perhaps the first step it to take a few steps back and just observe the emotions and behaviour your daughter is displaying. What do you see ? (anger, frustration, mood swings, inner turmoil ? etc), now is it possible to try and work out what might have caused this either through discussion or perhaps with the help of others ?
Does you daughter even acknowledge that there is a problem ?
Perhaps you could explain that her behaviour is having a detrimental impact on others... Choose your moment carefully and try not to get dragged into a reactionary emotional tit-for-tat conflict, taking a deep breath and walking away to regroup and provide a more controlled and reasoned response at a later time or even not at all can prevent things from escalating into the red zone.
Let us know how you get on.
Take care and good luck!