Lauren, you’re not crazy… You’ve done the right thing and remember your family probably know you very well. If they are supporting you in leaving him that is the right thing. If he is not able to be supportive about this and he is not the one for you. Have a new start. Look after yourself, do some meditation, eat well and do some exercise. It will help balance things out I’m sure. It is working for me that’s why I’m saying this. This could be a wonderful new start for you. Turn the page now and look ahead. I wish you all the luck and I’m sending you a big hug wherever you are. X
Thank you. I think I will have to heal in time. Everything just hurts right now and still no contact. It can’t be love from his side, someone who loves someone would not treat them this way, it’s impossible .
That is very true. Look after yourself, do some crying but also take care of yourself. There are lots of good resources; especially ted talks - I found those helpful anyway. Listen to your family and people you trust. Big hug. X
I have just made an account to comment on this. I am going through the exact same thing! I am 27 years old and have had this issue since being 16. I leave my partners as I can’t deal with the anxiety it causes me. I have to search parental guide before any series or movies. If I found out my partner watched porn I would leave. It scares me booking holidays due to females at the beach etc I always think men are looking for something they don’t have!! Any help would be appreciated on how to over come this. I have been counselling with no progress as nobody understands. It’s like hitting my head against w brick wall
Jesslou don't feel as though you are alone, TRUST me I know how u feel! You sound very similar to me! I am struggling sooo much ATM with these thoughts, especially since all of my friends just don't understand at all. I'm also desperate to be added to the whatsapp group, I need people in my life who understand