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by rach476
Fri Jul 23, 2021 10:24 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: My wife's personality change since giving birth
Replies: 17
Views: 36150

Re: My wife's personality change since giving birth

I often dip in and out of this forum especially over the last few years, but right now I feel I need to get this out and this was the perfect thread to do it, I am the "wife" in this however I have a slightly different story but hope I can help in some way and also start the healing proces...
by rach476
Tue Apr 28, 2020 9:35 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Me again.... Partners depression and baby girl
Replies: 1
Views: 1924

Me again.... Partners depression and baby girl

Hi all, i’ve been a member for a while and i dip in and out when i feel i need to write something down or try to get perspective by reading other people’s posts I have recently left my partner - again we share a beautiful little girl who is 6 months old but my partner is suffering with some mental h...
by rach476
Sun Jan 20, 2019 9:21 pm
Forum: Safe Room
Topic: Hitting earth with a bump
Replies: 2
Views: 2002

Re: Hitting earth with a bump

We’re here listening!!

Take one day at a time, don’t try to feel better and fix it, try to do one thing a day
by rach476
Sun Jan 20, 2019 8:16 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Coping with partners depression
Replies: 3
Views: 2628

Re: Coping with partners depression

wow this is like my life except for the baby and the alcohol. I can 100% relate to you on this, I am currently trying to stop doing everything that i do for my partner to try to force him into doing it for himself, I am so worn out by it all so can only imagine how you feel. we have good weeks, not ...
by rach476
Sun Jan 20, 2019 8:07 pm
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: Lonely
Replies: 4
Views: 1907

Re: Lonely

i’m on the other side of this looking in...

have you tried speaking to your partner? easier said than done sometimes

it does get very lonely especially when your partner cuts them selves off from you for days/ weeks at a time
by rach476
Sun Jan 20, 2019 7:25 pm
Forum: Rant Room
Topic: Ignorance
Replies: 3
Views: 3243

Re: Ignorance

Maisi sorry for lack of response Just finiding it really hard to deal with this stuff at the moment, I’d love to cut myself off from it but I can’t I am a person with empathy I feel a lot probably more than most and I care too much, I am full of anxiety but I always try to put others first and I’m j...
by rach476
Sun Jan 20, 2019 7:18 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: With a depressed person
Replies: 7
Views: 7521

Re: With a depressed person

I’m sorry you feel like this, it’s not a nice feeling, to love someone with depression is a feate within itself It’s hard especially trying to look after your own mental health too, when you say betray you what do you mean? there comes a point though where we have to really think about if the relati...
by rach476
Wed Dec 12, 2018 8:04 pm
Forum: Rant Room
Topic: Ignorance
Replies: 3
Views: 3243

Ignorance

Rant alert.. Ignorance....no one deserves to be ignored it is my one pet hate and one of the things I find is the most emotionally crushing...being ignored Those hours let thoughts and questions grow in your mind with absolutely no way of getting them answered and they evolve and they change into da...
by rach476
Mon Dec 10, 2018 12:19 am
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: Struggling to like myself
Replies: 4
Views: 1702

Re: Struggling to like myself

Hi I don’t think it’s a matter of fixing it per say, I have suffered badly with anxiety and little self worth for a long time and it really does help talking it through with your partner, being completely open and honest and I know it’s a thousand times easier said than done, if you need that extra ...
by rach476
Mon Dec 10, 2018 12:10 am
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: Registered on a whim
Replies: 4
Views: 1970

Re: Registered on a whim

Thank you for your replies It really does help to read other people’s experiences and ways in which they coped, I’m not a fixer by any means but I do take things to heart and sometimes it just gets too much, but the good times far outweigh the bad times at the moment. There is a level of self help i...

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