hi Huyo, hows it going
you still feeling like you cant be arsed
... what happened.. if you cant b arsed, just bear in inf the next rambling son are quite long and not related to my current emotions, so you may want to stop reading NOW...
hi, again,if your still here I give a ' HI 5'
..and now the ramblings begin, ( enjoy communicating with you, you bring out the silly side of me
, that I thought was dead and buried in all this depression BS) yeah honesty can be hurtful if done to cause pain, or done without though or feeling fr the other person, I think its not always what you say that's hurtful, its how its said and when its said. ive been fortunate, as I'm never made my friends or family feel hurt by my honesty, they actually crave my honesty, its like lets go to nats shell be straight with us, its all love at the end of the day.. and if I think something will hurt someone, then id say nothing, rather than lie. even sometimes I may begin to say something to someone, when asked my opinion, for example of my sisters latest antics with her boyfriend, ill watch her body language, if it seems she's getting anxious from something I say, I wont eve continue and just say well come back to it, she appreciated that as I really do care for peoples feelings, but I also am open and honest too.. don't work for everyone, and that what makes the world interesting I guess, were all unique.
and the fake it till you make it, I don't necessarily and yup some people do fake it till they make it and then actually make it. I guess I was talking more about people who are not actually trying to make it, they just faking it to fit it..if that makes sense, that's hat I don't like. ,. I think that way of thought 'FITYMI' has foundation in law of attraction , I did on occasion fake it until I made it.. before I ran my own company I kept saying to myself everyday, I'm a business woman, I'm my own boss, I named my company before it existed and introduced myself as a part time business woman to new people that I met, as part time I was planning my business and so I guess that aspect of fake to you make it is good, but as I said, to clarify if its based on an element of truth of the individual trying to achieve the status (professional, emotional, financial, physical) there faking about.