I am in a similar situation with my husband. For the past two years I have been constantly on edge waiting for the next bout of depression to hit, meanwhile I have been dealing with everything at home, our house, the dog and keeping my job and trying to keep relationships going with friends and family. It’s exausting. I have recently become so burnt out that I have been worried about my own health, I have started to have regular phone calls with a well-being person at my GP’s which have been helpful in describing my own feelings and how this has impacted on my health. What I have learnt from these sessions is that you can’t do everything for your partner all you can do is be there for them and encourage them to seek the right treatment. You also need to put yourself first no matter how difficult it is to do that.