Arwen so sorry to read this latest development. If a letter will make you feel better then I would go ahead, as everyone has rightly said, you have nothing to lose. I suppose this new situation now puts an end to the limbo. I hope are you doing ok.
James, sorry to hear you are feeling low today. I can understand the feeling of anticipation of seeing her even if you are trying to move on. The week that its in is probably making things more emotional for you. I hope your evening with friends make you feel better.
Mimosas, how are you doing today? Are you still questioning whether to make a trip home. Back in January I did show up unannounced at my guy's place of work. I just said hi, we had a brief chit chat where he realised i was not there to give him a hard time. For us it reopened the lines of communication... that being said i did feel like a stalker going there. Looking at it retrospectively he was probably starting to get out of his darkest place at the time which may have helped his reaction when seeing me that time. Its hard to decide what to do, it is a fine line between wanted to be supportive and being overbearing (i would definitely have fallen in the latter
Lillie, how are you today? What are your plans for your weekly meet-up with your man tomorrow?
Look after yourselves everyone xx