Liveahappylife and James80 I totally relate to you too. I have been with my man for 4 years, although we don’t live together (its too complicated to explain why). He out of the blue dumped me on our 4th anniversary. Said we weren’t working, he said more hurtful things too but I can’t even type them as they make me cry. Since then I’ve seen him regularly and things improved a bit but not much. He won’t take tablets and counselling isn’t working. He used to text, email and Skype me every day for 4 years but not now. He’s happy going out with his mates getting drunk. He is constantly popping up on whatsapp talking to someone but he selectively responds to my messages and I didn’t get any sort of happy Christmas either despite sending him one. Although he did drunkenly thank me twice for the gifts I gave him. I still read the lovely emails he used to send me, I should delete them but I can’t. I’m close to walking away, I’m seeing him Thursday to tell him, to his face not by text as he did to me, unless I change my mind. I love this man with all my heart, I miss what we had so so much, we were so passionate and in love. I have to think of myself and my needs too though so I’ve got to be brave and end our association.