mr.brightside wrote:I've read the article and I'm 100% in agreement with it! It's an eye opener though that it's almost become thus social phenomenon - in a negative meaning of course. I think that the important thing is that it isn't a reflection of who we are as a person, but a reflection of our exes problems (or maybe quite simply if their mean personality!).
Ariane, I have been keeping away for the same reasons as James and for the same reasons you, Lilly and others are now looking to move onto a different communication platform. If male members are welcome, I'd like to try joining too... I'll email during the day...
Mr B I've said for a long time that firstly the internet, then social media and now mobile technology have given so many ways for people to be able to easily behave badly towards others. It would have been so much harder in earlier times to either completely disappear, re-invent, be someone you're not, or on the other hand completely shut someone out of your life. It's horrible. In my probably mis-guided message to his friend and family I said 'how would you feel if this happened to someone you care about' ... it all comes down to treating people in the way you'd like to be treated yourself. Personally I'm such a useless liar and beat myself up if I ever think I have hurt someone I just couldn't do it. End of rant!
I'm more than happy to have the males in the group, I'm sure the others will be too, you have contributed just as much as we girls have.