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kat32
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby kat32 » Fri Jan 13, 2017 9:49 am

Part of the problem is when others get at me or prevent me from reaching my potential and rather than stick it out and fought, I shy away and walk, change my mind and chances of reaching my potential.
I wish I could stick up for myself and fight for my chance gaining paid work in computers.

andthistoomustpass
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby andthistoomustpass » Sat Jan 14, 2017 1:05 am

Hi Kat

From what you have told us you are stronger than you think. Pair that with your determination and I am sure that, if you keep working towards it in the way that you are, you will reach your goal.

Wishing you well.

kat32
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby kat32 » Sat Jan 14, 2017 11:32 pm

Thanks, I know it sounds harsh but when I was on holiday for a week, last year and the year before, I didn't have any neighbours saying things through the walls, to Me or my relatives. I so wanted to Say that I didn't want to come home to Neighbours who playing with my mind. I so can't stand living next door them, I want to look for somewhere else to live but the others I love with are stubborn to stay here. I just can't stand my neighbours and I wish they'd stop talking through the walls. It's not me, it's them.
I put an alarm on that annoys them, they think theirs a frog in their bathroom but it's me alarm clock. I've heard employee say to each other, I think theirs a frog in here. I'm not saying anything. They shouldn't mess with our minds.
I'd rather move but I can't afford it.

I can't wait for my holiday again, I'd take my pets with me if I could and buy a house or build one and start afresh.

andthistoomustpass
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby andthistoomustpass » Mon Jan 16, 2017 9:53 pm

Hi Kat

It must be tough for you. The positive thing in your post is the holidays when it's been better. You know it isn't always like this and know you are in control of your life and can make it better. That realisation is surprisingly hard to achieve.

kat32
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby kat32 » Mon Jan 16, 2017 10:38 pm

Thanks, today when I was in the shop I saw this man take a picture of me, I just stood and stared at him, he jumped back and disappeared up the aisle. It was a good job I was at the counter and ready to leave. I still think I'd better off moving, but with so much going on I can't. I felt like shouting, hey you what you doing but then it could have ended badly. I just left.
I so hate it when strangers take pictures of you on their phones. It could have been something innocent, or to do with last year's temping but I've never seen him before.
I shall keep a sharper eye out, next time in the shops.

andthistoomustpass
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby andthistoomustpass » Wed Jan 18, 2017 12:02 am

It's great that you are identifying solutions rather than focusing on the problem. Very impressive.

kat32
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby kat32 » Wed Jan 18, 2017 3:46 pm

I've been there and back, I find it easier to move on, than focus on the problem, it's easier to try and put on a front, move on than solve it. It doesn't do well to dwell on things.

kat32
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby kat32 » Thu Jan 19, 2017 7:40 pm

Today's outing was ok, on the bus going someone was talking about me and my family on the phone. I really wanted to go up and tell her to shut up. She constantly went on about my work history and how I put on my form about looking after family. The worst thing is I don't know her but she must have read one of my application forms. Why, what constitutes to data protection act. Their were a few others on the bus, but luckily it wasn't full, but that girl just broke confidently.

The rest of the outlining was ok, why is it that people have to talk private data over the phone in public places.
If I charged ten pound a second my name was mentioned I'd be a millionaire.

I'm just cheesed off not being able to go out without being slandered.

andthistoomustpass
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby andthistoomustpass » Fri Jan 20, 2017 2:28 am

I think you are doing really well to ignore it. Confrontation will do no one any good. I'm starting to exercise to get rid of any anger / cheesedoffness, it really helps.

kat32
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Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

Postby kat32 » Mon Jan 23, 2017 8:51 pm

Today's been ok, no one's said anything about me when I was put but I kept checking to make sure no one was their, then if I was in a crowded place I was leaning against the wall.
I still feel bad for what that girl said about my application form, I don't understand why they get away with chatting personal details in a public place. But I mustnt dwell on it.

I've decided to loose weight, it's one of my points that stops me from gaining paid work. The other is people taking the Mic out of me or trying to get rid of me which I can't do anything about. Even if I moved out the area they'd look at me name and start digging dirt up and pick on me.


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