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Cyprus
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Why

Postby Cyprus » Sun Mar 04, 2018 6:58 pm

Why do we apologise even when we know that we are in the right because we are nice or in my case because I can’t take conflict puts me back in some bad places in my life
So I am cross with myself for taking the blame when I know people have lied to me

andthistoomustpass
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Re: Why

Postby andthistoomustpass » Mon Mar 05, 2018 12:25 pm

Hi Cyprus

One way I learned to think is that I should not have been placed in that position to start with, to ask myself why I am attacking myself for something someone else has done. I accepted I was not responsible for the actions of others. It helped.

rsxo
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Re: Why

Postby rsxo » Sat Mar 10, 2018 2:17 pm

Hi Cyprus,

Saying "sorry" is part of British politeness, as it is normally able to quickly defuse a situation, as we appear to take responsibility for causing a tension to arise in the social environment. It doesn't mean that we're in the wrong at all, but simply as a tool to settle any tensionx

Much love <3
RSxo <3


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