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by james80
Fri Mar 30, 2018 11:17 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 84703

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

I hope you have a great time ariane. I think I speak for all of us when I say we are rooting for you guys. So nice to see a story actually look like it may have a happy ending! Fingers crossed for your guy too Lillie. I really hope he gets the outcome he wants from court. As a father myself I can on...
by james80
Thu Mar 29, 2018 2:51 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 84703

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Pure, you sound like my brain talking! As you say it's hard not to have contact because of the work situation. But I do try as much as I can. I know rationally that I'm looking for signs etc that probably aren't there. You can make yourself believe anything if you want to. I'm pining for a past that...
by james80
Thu Mar 29, 2018 9:25 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 1672

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

Hi cc. Such a hard situation to be in, I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this and that she obviously is suffering as well. It certainly doesn't sound like a 'normal' relationship occurance so your instincts abkut depression may well be right. Particularly given what she's been through ...
by james80
Thu Mar 29, 2018 8:57 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 84703

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

That's Arwen I'll have a look out for that. I need to do something to help me move on. My mind is my enemy at the moment, cannot fully process it all and because we had a good week of interaction in work (She was instigating conversations, there even seemed to be a couple of 'moments, it started to ...
by james80
Wed Mar 28, 2018 8:24 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 84703

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

How did you do the inventory Arwen? Sounds a useful exercise.
by james80
Tue Mar 27, 2018 9:38 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 84703

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Thanks for your input PureFrustr8ed. You've put into words exactly what all my rumination and reading online has led me to think. I too went looking for things I'd done. That there must be a reason behind this. Something I'd done that I hadn't appreciated. But no. It was nothing to do with me. My ex...
by james80
Tue Mar 27, 2018 3:56 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 84703

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

That's a lovely way of putting it Arwen and I feel much the same. I cannot be angry with her because I am convinced she did have the feelings she said last year. I know she didn't set out to hurt me. It's probably been as bewildering and confusing for her too. I am angry. But don't really have a dir...
by james80
Mon Mar 26, 2018 6:54 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 84703

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

I've thought about that a lot. Does she just think I'm ok with it all now? Did she want me to put up more of a fight and I've just given up? I have no idea how to handle this situation tbh. I did tell her how I felt a month ago, after I had avoided that for a while to give her space . I wrote her a ...
by james80
Mon Mar 26, 2018 5:45 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 84703

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Anyway enough about me and my sad infatuation with my ex. How is everyone? Nicer weather today! Hope people managed to enjoy it.
by james80
Mon Mar 26, 2018 5:31 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 84703

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi guys. Usually.monday heartache for me! I really wish we didn't work together! I'm able to act normally now around her and at least get through the day ok nowadays. Although at one point I had to disappear and put my feelings down in a word document on my phone just to get the frustrations out. It...

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