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by lilliep
Thu Apr 12, 2018 6:32 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 89721

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi Ariane I think you are doing the right thing and I’m hoping that he does pick up that phone tonight. You can only forgive so much and you have been there for him, so patient and understanding for so long. You tread eggshells with these people, I’ve done it for 8 months and it’s not the easiest th...
by lilliep
Thu Apr 12, 2018 8:03 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 89721

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi Ariane

I hope contacting his friend works, I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Lillie xx
by lilliep
Thu Apr 12, 2018 7:45 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 89721

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Oh Ariane I wish I could give you a hug because I truly know how you feel xx A few weeks ago I spent an amazing night with my man, it was like we had never been apart, and it gave me so much hope but he’s never asked me stay over again. I should ask him why when he says he has no feelings for me tha...
by lilliep
Wed Apr 11, 2018 10:24 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 89721

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi Ariane Hopefully this is just a blip caused by missing his meds. I understand how you feel though because I’ve beem there many times too. Sometimes my guy would go silent for days and I only stopped worrying about him when I could see he was reading my messages, although the lack of response or o...
by lilliep
Tue Apr 10, 2018 10:14 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 89721

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi James Arys is a beige dominant spot Syrian with ruby red eyes, a very handsome and nicely natured hamster. Is your flame of hope still burning? I can understand why, it’s hard to understand how these people can go from warm and loving to cold and uncaring and you always hope the real them will co...
by lilliep
Tue Apr 10, 2018 4:33 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 89721

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi Ariane Thanks, I guess we always do think the worst, I’m certainly guilty of that, and normally it’s nothing like we imagine. I do want to know how it went today, I’ve been going through this with him since the very start. It would prey on my mind if I never knew if all the hard work we did initi...
by lilliep
Tue Apr 10, 2018 4:13 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend is emotionally flatlining
Replies: 13
Views: 1703

Re: Depressed boyfriend is emotionally flatlining

Hi Scn It sounds like you have done all you can and more for him. In my experience depression and the total lack of empathy means these people are very self centred and blame all their problems on other people. They appreciate nothing you do however much you put yourself out for them. The 8 months I...
by lilliep
Tue Apr 10, 2018 7:49 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 930
Views: 89721

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Thanks Ariane xx I really appreciate the support here. Yes the hearing is today, he is certain to get some sort of indirect contact awarded and a proper timeline for direct contact to start with professional help to restablish a relationship with his children, everything he’s wanted. I’m hoping the ...
by lilliep
Mon Apr 09, 2018 7:52 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Partner with depression being very distant
Replies: 1
Views: 421

Re: Partner with depression being very distant

Hi Sparkle I’m in a similar situation. After 4 years of being with my man he sent me a text message last September saying that nothing in his life made him happy, we weren’t working and he had to look after himself and shut down emotionally whoever that upset. That came totally out of the blue and w...
by lilliep
Mon Apr 09, 2018 5:12 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend is emotionally flatlining
Replies: 13
Views: 1703

Re: Depressed boyfriend is emotionally flatlining

I’m so sorry Scn. It sounds like he has serious problems and whilst you want to stand by him I don’t think it will do you any good. Tough as it is these people won’t get better unless they get help and I hope he does. I’m in the same position right now. My man has a court hearing tomorrow (he may ge...

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