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by lilliep
Fri Oct 13, 2017 9:48 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: My boyfriend broke up with me because of depression
Replies: 1
Views: 476

Re: My boyfriend broke up with me because of depression

Hi I'm going through something similar. My boyfriend of 4 years told me he loved me as a person but not in any other way. Literally overnight his feelings changed and I went from being someone he loved to someone he can barely spend a few hours with. He too says he doesn't want a relationship right ...
by lilliep
Sun Oct 08, 2017 8:29 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: How do you deal with the total lack of empathy?
Replies: 4
Views: 673

Re: How do you deal with the total lack of empathy?

Thank you rsxo. Sometimes I just feel like giving up. Like today we had a nice lunch, a few drinks and then he wanted to go home ... alone. It really hurt as I have to travel a fair way by to see him and I ended up spending only a few hours with him. I think I need to stop seeing him and just do ind...
by lilliep
Sun Oct 08, 2017 10:53 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: How do you deal with the total lack of empathy?
Replies: 4
Views: 673

Re: How do you deal with the total lack of empathy?

Thank you Isap. Your words are a great comfort to me. I'll never give up on him, I love him too much.
by lilliep
Sat Oct 07, 2017 3:23 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Don't know what to do?
Replies: 4
Views: 592

Re: Don't know what to do?

Hi I'm going through something similar too. My boyfriend has changed suddenly from the loving, caring, gentle man I love to a cold, emotionless shadow of what he was. I know what has caused this crisis and I know it will end in a few weeks time but I don't know what he will be after. I love him with...
by lilliep
Sat Oct 07, 2017 3:03 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: How do you deal with the total lack of empathy?
Replies: 4
Views: 673

How do you deal with the total lack of empathy?

At the moment he says he's too emotionally drained for a relationship. He's got nothing to give and feels bad that he's using me because he can't give me what I need. He still keeps in regular contact and I see him once a week for a meal and a chat and it's almost like it used to be. He hugs me, let...
by lilliep
Sun Oct 01, 2017 2:44 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Feeling isolated and abadoned; partner has depression
Replies: 4
Views: 774

Re: Feeling isolated and abadoned; partner has depression

I know how you feel as I am going through something similar with my boyfriend. I sometimes can't believe he's the same man. The total lack of affection and empathy is so hard to deal with. Yesterday he made me cry because of the cold way be was treating me, he actually ran to hug me and for a whole ...
by lilliep
Sun Oct 01, 2017 2:35 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Need some advice please - confused
Replies: 0
Views: 551

Need some advice please - confused

I think my boyfriend has depression and recently it's got much worse. It's caused by a long standing situation he feels unable to control that will soon reach a conclusion which will either be really good for him or potentially ruin his life. He won't get any help or advise even though I've begged h...

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