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by cc86
Sat Apr 07, 2018 10:24 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Shut out of new relationship
Replies: 71
Views: 8476

Re: Shut out of new relationship

Mimosas, I really do know how you feel and I feel for you...It is horrible trying to cling on to whatever glimmer of hope we can and I too have people saying I shouldn't bother even of my ex was to suddenly come running back. Personally I think my situation is slightly different in that it appears h...
by cc86
Fri Apr 06, 2018 5:38 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Shut out of new relationship
Replies: 71
Views: 8476

Re: Shut out of new relationship

Hey Mimosas, I don't blame you for going...at least it may hopefully provide some form of closure and you never know, by appearing in person (if you are able to get in contact with him) may just be what is needed to provoke a response. I wish you well, and hope that one way or the other it helps you...
by cc86
Wed Apr 04, 2018 10:44 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 2006

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

That's what I keep telling myself...that the sudden change isn't normal. That said I had a few suspicions recently that there was someone else as she was spending a lot of effort on her appearance and going out with friends a lot. That said though, I don't believe for one minute that if she was hidi...
by cc86
Wed Apr 04, 2018 8:50 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 2006

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

Evening James, Thanks for your reply earlier today...I completely get what you're saying but my only concern is that my ex doesn't have depression (just like she says), despite being prescribed anxiety tablets and coming under a lot of strain and stress at work lately. Today, a close family member r...
by cc86
Tue Apr 03, 2018 8:44 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 2006

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

Evening both, I really do feel for each of your situations...it is seriously a horrible place to be in and ultimately makes you feel so helpless. I admire both of you with the resilience you are showing in holding out with hope. Today was a struggle working and I now find myself pining for my ex and...
by cc86
Tue Apr 03, 2018 1:03 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 2006

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

Wow James, you seriously have had some heartache to deal with and I really feel for you mate. I would say the sequence of your events in your current ex losing her feeling for you is very similar to mine, although my ex refuses to acknowledge there is a problem and that I am essentially the cause of...
by cc86
Mon Apr 02, 2018 5:59 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 2006

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

Thanks James, I know you're right and I fear it's too late and she has made up her mind...will time heal those feelings and bring her back. With regards to Anhedonia, I had a little read but she was adamant that when she is with friends or doing things she enjoys she is fine, it's just me and work b...
by cc86
Mon Apr 02, 2018 3:35 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 2006

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

Mimosas, I truly feel for you too, it must be horrendously hard not knowing where you stand and not having any way of contacting him. I'm not sure whether contacting a friend would necessarily be a wise idea, as I have tried that before with a previous partner (getting a family member to contact her...
by cc86
Mon Apr 02, 2018 10:22 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 2006

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

Thanks mate, so after sending a relatively long message to my ex gf last night just asking what had happened so drastically to change things, I had a long reply today saying how the relationship brought out a nasty side in her and that she didn't want to hurt me but wanted me to move on and be happy...
by cc86
Sun Apr 01, 2018 11:57 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 2006

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

Hi James, Thanks for your message...I was hoping maybe it was like a cycle and that she would come back again and we could talk and hopefully get her the help I feel she needs (but obviously I would try and go through it with her). Tonight, I happened to log back into the dating site we met on to re...

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