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by arwen2018
Tue Apr 24, 2018 11:08 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Good morning All Sounds out of this world all this ghosting and orbiting! My ex has unfriended me on Facebook but not blocked. He hasn't blocked my number as far as I know, but he might have deleted my number. I'm not going to find out if he has. It's not worth the pain. Ariane, thank you for settin...
by arwen2018
Mon Apr 23, 2018 11:35 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

I have an idea.

One of us could create a closed Facebook Group that we would then request to join. The admin person would then vet the request and accept or refuse. From the group, we can then move to Messenger or WhatsApp chats if we wanted to. What do you think?
by arwen2018
Mon Apr 23, 2018 10:50 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Ariane, Lillie and Mimosas, I like the idea of a survivor group. This forum isn’t helpful after a while, especially if you’re trying to move on. Not sure how we would do it without compromising our privacy ....

xxx
by arwen2018
Sat Apr 21, 2018 10:22 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi Ariane and Lillie I’m so sorry to hear things have not worked out for you either. This is really so so sad. I really wonder if we can put all the blame on their illness or if it is partly who they are. We all deserve better, although it doesn’t feel that way at the moment. Hugs to you both. Take ...
by arwen2018
Fri Apr 20, 2018 1:24 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hello everyone The weather is gorgeous. It should be illegal to have to be at work when the weather is that beautiful :D I think all of us who have been or are in a relationship with someone with MH illness, are all expert eggshells walkers!! It would seem that all who suffer display the same or ver...
by arwen2018
Tue Apr 17, 2018 2:55 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi Ariane I'm concerned about you and feel so bad for you. This is not right, nor healthy for you. I don't think your guy will respond to you. You can't reason with the irrational. And he is irrational at the moment. Unless he takes his medication, it will get worse. As hard as it is, you need to th...
by arwen2018
Tue Apr 17, 2018 2:47 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi scn I read about Borderline Personality Disorder. Although I'm not 100% sure and it would be up to a Professional to diagnose, my ex appeared to have displayed some of the signs. For example, the intensity of the relationship and how he seemed to have idealized me. How after the 2nd date he reall...
by arwen2018
Mon Apr 16, 2018 9:44 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

My ex shut me out for a month and a half before breaking up with me. During that time, he would read my messages (not always straight away), but very, very rarely responded. I reckon during that time he was planning who to move on to (my replacement) and how he would do that because he can’t be on h...
by arwen2018
Sun Apr 15, 2018 10:44 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Morning everyone Ariane, my ex’s cousin said something similar. He said my ex before he got married was never good at relationships. He isn’t Mr normal and is more like a free spirit. However, my ex was married for 10 years before his wife cheated on him and left him. In my situation, I think my ex ...
by arwen2018
Sat Apr 14, 2018 11:05 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 926
Views: 57335

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi Lillie, Ariane, Sally, James and all those who haven’t posted for a while. I’m sorry Lillie and Ariane that things with your guys aren’t looking good, when we thought your situations were heading towards happy endings. Unfortunately if they don’t want to help themselves, no one can do it for them...

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