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by tofler
Sun Sep 16, 2018 6:15 pm
Forum: Safe Room
Topic: Suicidal Because Ugly
Replies: 10
Views: 417

Re: Suicidal Because Ugly

I can't see a single comment in this thread where i've told you to "think happy thoughts" or to "believe in yourself more". I've tried to suggest to you that perhaps you have tunnel vision about this issue and that viewing it from different perspectives might help you to get unst...
by tofler
Sun Sep 16, 2018 5:12 pm
Forum: Safe Room
Topic: Suicidal Because Ugly
Replies: 10
Views: 417

Re: Suicidal Because Ugly

You're completely missing the point with all this.
by tofler
Sun Sep 16, 2018 8:04 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Trapped in depression
Replies: 7
Views: 160

Re: Trapped in depression

Getting divorced isn't easy but it isn't impossible either. How about relationship counselling as an alternative if you're wanting to stay together? Life is very difficult with 2 young children, do you think things might improve as they get older?
by tofler
Sun Sep 16, 2018 1:04 am
Forum: Safe Room
Topic: Suicidal Because Ugly
Replies: 10
Views: 417

Re: Suicidal Because Ugly

Best case scenario, as smiley has already said, it can help you to identify unhelpful thinking patterns and to see things from different perspectives. At the moment you have tunnel vision about this issue, also known as "black and white thinking" which means that you dismiss anything that ...
by tofler
Sun Sep 16, 2018 12:56 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Trapped in depression
Replies: 7
Views: 160

Re: Trapped in depression

I'm really sorry to hear how difficult things are for you at the moment. Maybe it would be better for you and your wife to separate and for you to continue seeing your children? I'm divorced as well and it's not easy but it might be better than how you're living right now.
by tofler
Sun Sep 16, 2018 12:49 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Boy age 11 put on starvation diet by anorexic mother
Replies: 5
Views: 140

Re: Boy age 11 put on starvation diet by anorexic mother

Yes, please contact children's social services at your local council. In any situation like this, the wellbeing of the child has to take priority over everything else.
by tofler
Sun Sep 16, 2018 12:43 am
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: Back again!
Replies: 36
Views: 1802

Re: Back again!

Hi maisi, I'm really sorry to hear that something terrible happened for you this week. Thanks for the mental image of the devious squirrel with the apple and I'm glad it gave you a laugh! Also thanks for the reminder to not beat myself up about feeling so low at the moment, I'll try to keep that in ...
by tofler
Sat Sep 15, 2018 12:11 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Loneliness...
Replies: 5
Views: 274

Re: Loneliness...

Feeling lonely is really on the increase for me at the moment. Support group not helping with this. Being on here isn't helping with this (and is probably making it worse). Still no joy with finding activities etc that I can go to, because I work full time and everything that appeals to me seems to ...
by tofler
Fri Sep 14, 2018 1:39 am
Forum: Safe Room
Topic: Stupid me *Trig
Replies: 2
Views: 141

Re: Stupid me *Trig

Yes you need to get some help with this and I very much doubt that you'd be sectioned. Ring NHS 111 for advice or go to your local A&E department, asap.
by tofler
Thu Sep 13, 2018 7:27 am
Forum: Safe Room
Topic: Suicide
Replies: 3
Views: 160

Re: Suicide

Hi mmboo, I can see that it's a couple of days ago since you posted. Just wanted to ask how you are today and did you manage to ring anyone? I hope you're finding a way of coping with these difficult thoughts and feelings.

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