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by 2jenny
Thu Jun 23, 2016 8:01 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: contact ended
Replies: 9
Views: 1551

Re: contact ended

Today the news includes one man who raped his little girl for years, organising gang rapes for any other men who wanted to join in. You may tell her not to be sorry for herself and hold grudges. You may dictate that a book you read makes it obligatory for her to forgive him and all of them. You may,...
by 2jenny
Thu Jun 23, 2016 7:39 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: contact ended
Replies: 9
Views: 1551

Re: contact ended

Err..".grudges, angry, bitter, and sorry for yourself" is rather a large assumption about people you know nothing about! The English have a phrase for that. It's "speak for yourself". Many people are horribly wronged, often by multiple abusers, often in multiple ways and for mult...
by 2jenny
Mon Jun 20, 2016 1:40 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: contact ended
Replies: 9
Views: 1551

Re: contact ended

It isn't a matter of forgiving, is it, in the many cases where the victim is the one ousted, the abuser is the one treated well by the rejecting family? By continuing contact, victims add their own silent collusion and consent, tacitly, to the obvious assumptions they and their wellbeing or their ab...
by 2jenny
Mon Jun 20, 2016 11:08 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: You don't have to go through this alone.
Replies: 281
Views: 250752

Re: You don't have to go through this alone.

On the first page, someone says it's a nice idea, but hard to believe that you are not alone, when you most certainly are alone, completely, always have been, always will be, and asking for help is an unaccustomed notion, for someone who never had anyone on their side. The not-belonging is emphasise...

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